Title: How do I chat when I just added WeChat? Analysis of hot topics on the Internet in the past 10 days
In today's era of popular social networks, WeChat has become an important tool for people's daily communication. However, many people don’t know how to start a conversation when they first join WeChat, resulting in embarrassment or a cold moment. This article will combine the hot topics and hot content on the Internet in the past 10 days to provide you with a structured data guide to help you break the ice easily.
1. Analysis of hot topics in the past 10 days
The following are the most discussed social topics and related data on the Internet in the past 10 days:
| Ranking | topic | Number of discussions (10,000) | Main platform |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | WeChat icebreaker skills | 125.6 | Weibo, Zhihu, Xiaohongshu |
| 2 | Coping with social anxiety | 98.3 | Douyin, Bilibili |
| 3 | High emotional intelligence chat skills | 87.2 | WeChat public account, Zhihu |
| 4 | Etiquette for using emoticons | 65.4 | Xiaohongshu, Weibo |
2. Chat skills for newly added WeChat
Based on the analysis of hot topics, we have summarized the following practical WeChat chat skills:
1.Start with common ground: If you met through mutual friends or an event, you can start the conversation from those things you have in common. For example: "I heard that you also like mountain climbing? Do you have any good route recommendations recently?"
2.Use emoticons in moderation: Data shows that appropriate emoticons can alleviate embarrassment. But be careful:
| Emoticon type | Applicable scenarios | Recommended frequency of use |
|---|---|---|
| cute animals | first chat | 1-2/conversation |
| Humor | After getting familiar with | Use in moderation |
| Text emoticons | Formal occasions | Use with caution |
3.open ended questions: Avoid simple "yes/no" questions and ask more open-ended questions. For example: "How do you spend your weekends?" is more likely to trigger a conversation than "Do you have weekends off?"
3. High EQ chat rules
Based on the discussion on the hot topic "Chatting with High Emotional Intelligence", we have compiled the following golden rules:
| law | illustrate | Example |
|---|---|---|
| 3:7 Listening Rules | Say 30% yourself and guide the other party to say 70% | "That sounds interesting, can you tell me more?" |
| Respond positively | Give timely feedback | "I see, I completely understand what you mean." |
| Moderate self-disclosure | Share appropriate personal information | "I have encountered a similar situation..." |
4. Precautions to avoid stepping on minefields
In recent social discussion, the following behaviors are generally considered inappropriate:
1.Excessive questioning of privacy: Intimate issues such as income and relationship status should be avoided during the initial acquaintance stage.
2.No reply for a long time: Data shows that it is considered rude not to reply to messages from newly added friends for more than 24 hours.
3.Send voice frequently: Unless the other party clearly indicates that it is okay, text communication is more appropriate.
5. Analysis of practical cases
Here’s an example of a conversation that successfully broke the ice:
A: "Hello! I added you through a book club activity. I heard that you also like Higashino Keigo's works?" (Start with commonalities)
B: "Yes, I particularly like his "White Night Journey"
A: "I love that book too! Which plot do you think touches you the most?" (open-ended question)
B: "When the hero is in the snow..."
A: "This choice is really meaningful [thinking emoticon]" (use emoticons in moderation)
Through the above structured data and practical tips, I believe you have mastered the chat method when you first joined WeChat. Remember, sincerity and respect are always the basis for good communication. I wish you success in socializing on WeChat!
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